Where the Teaberries Grow is a tender and richly remembered portrait of a childhood shaped by place, faith, and family legacy.
Set against the backdrop of America’s Keswick, this memoir invites readers into a world both ordinary and sacred—where lakes and footbridges, gathering halls and quiet corners became the setting for a life deeply formed by God’s presence.
Through vivid storytelling and carefully woven reflection, the author shares the “little history” of Keswick—the moments not recorded in official accounts, but lived day by day: childhood memories, family rhythms, seasons of joy, and the quiet shaping of identity and faith. At the heart of this story is a legacy—one carried through generations, marked by devotion, sacrifice, and the steady call to follow Christ.
With warmth, honesty, and a deep sense of place, Where the Teaberries Grow is more than a memoir. It is an invitation to remember, to reflect, and to consider how the places and people in our lives quietly shape who we become.
Love Them To Life often walks with families facing one of the most painful realities of loving someone in addiction: learning when love must say no.
Alex lives on the streets in one of the roughest areas of a major East Coast city. He receives disability income, and each month when his check arrives, the cycle begins again—he buys a phone or tablet, some food, and as many drugs as he can get. Within a week, the device has been stolen or pawned, the money is gone, and desperation sets in.
That is when the calls come. He wants a ride to the hospital or rehab because this time he is really done. He detoxes for a few days, leaves again, and returns to the streets with a new plan: get housing, start methadone, stabilize his life.
Meanwhile, his family lives under the shadow of dread, wondering if the next phone call will come from the police—or the morgue.
“I love you, but I can’t” is a phrase I often teach the women in the Love Them To Life community. When someone is trapped in addiction, the requests can feel endless:
• “Can I move back home just for a little while?”
• “I need money so a dealer doesn’t hurt me.”
• “I need money for rehab.”
• “I need help with rent.”
• “I just need food.”
• “This time will be different.”
Each request pulls at the heart.
Saying no can be one of the most heart-wrenching things we ever do. Sometimes the request sounds reasonable. Sometimes it comes with promises to pay you back. Sometimes it feels as though they may die on the streets if you do not step in. Add to that the guilt, pressure, and manipulation that often accompany addiction, and it can feel impossible to hold a boundary.
But as counterintuitive as it seems, saying no is often the most loving response.
Why?
1. Enabling prolongs destruction. When we repeatedly remove consequences, we may unintentionally help sustain the addiction that is harming them.
2. Consequences can become turning points. Many people do not seek real change until the pain of staying the same becomes greater than the pain of change.
3. Hope can keep us trapped. We desperately want to believe this will be the time treatment works, the promises are real, and lasting change begins.
4. Boundaries are not abandonment. Allowing someone to face reality may feel cruel in the moment, but rescuing them again and again can delay the very surrender that could save their life.
Sometimes the hardest no is the doorway to the first real yes.
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